Failure Is Not A Finish Line

Failure is not a finish line

Failure. The Big F. We fear it as much as the thing itself.  Failure means many different things to many different people. It's normally something that feels like an end, a loss, the closing of a door. It can be heartbreaking and devastating. Failure is a lot of things. But failure is not a finish … Continue reading Failure Is Not A Finish Line

Sometimes Life Sucks. And That’s Ok.

Sometimes Life Sucks

Sometimes life sucks and there is nothing you can do about it. Sounds a bit grim doesn't it? But if you can accept that fact. Accept that sometimes all you can do is ride it out until it gets better or sucks a bit less. Then you'll realise that ultimately, your life sucking right now … Continue reading Sometimes Life Sucks. And That’s Ok.

Helping Others To Help Yourself

Help Others To Help Yourself

Helping others to help yourself can sound like a bit of a selfish endeavour. We have this idea that to help someone should be a completely altruistic behaviour. That we shouldn't be doing it in the hope of getting some reward or benefit. But sometimes helping others is the best way to help yourself. The … Continue reading Helping Others To Help Yourself

Time, Sacrifice And Success. (The Reality You’re Not Being Told)

Time Sacrifice And Success. The Self-Help Delusion

We pretty much accept that success requires sacrifice and hard work. That in order to achieve a goal you have to find the time to put into it. There is, however, a great self-help delusion about where to find that time. About the real sacrifices that must be made. There's a lot the people who … Continue reading Time, Sacrifice And Success. (The Reality You’re Not Being Told)

Positive Thinking, Mental Health And Achievement.

It's a mantra of the modern age. The idea that just by using positive thinking, positive affirmations, positive visualisation, you can change your life. But do you really believe that by telling yourself that love, luck, or success, will come your way just by thinking about it, that it will happen? That affirmations and visualisations … Continue reading Positive Thinking, Mental Health And Achievement.