Helping others to help yourself can sound like a bit of a selfish endeavour. We have this idea that to help someone should be a completely altruistic behaviour. That we shouldn't be doing it in the hope of getting some reward or benefit. But sometimes helping others is the best way to help yourself. The … Continue reading Helping Others To Help Yourself
We pretty much accept that success requires sacrifice and hard work. That in order to achieve a goal you have to find the time to put into it. There is, however, a great self-help delusion about where to find that time. About the real sacrifices that must be made. There's a lot the people who … Continue reading Time, Sacrifice And Success. (The Reality You’re Not Being Told)
It's a mantra of the modern age. The idea that just by using positive thinking, positive affirmations, positive visualisation, you can change your life. But do you really believe that by telling yourself that love, luck, or success, will come your way just by thinking about it, that it will happen? That affirmations and visualisations … Continue reading Positive Thinking, Mental Health And Achievement.
We like to blame things for our problems. We blame circumstances, our past, our upbringing, the people around us. We can blame everyone and everything. But the biggest problem in life, in your life, is you. Don't worry though. It's the same for everyone. We all have our battles. The challenges we face everyday. Some … Continue reading The Biggest Problem In Life (And What To Do About It)
We all have an opinion on something. We have opinions on politics, people, places. You name it, and someone will have an opinion on it. But there is only one opinion that matters. The opinion you have of yourself. And even that doesn't matter too much. Look, opinions are fickle. They can change in an … Continue reading The Only Opinion That Matters